{"id":385,"date":"2003-01-17T12:10:25","date_gmt":"2003-01-17T17:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/?p=385"},"modified":"2003-01-17T12:10:25","modified_gmt":"2003-01-17T17:10:25","slug":"not-about-mary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/?p=385","title":{"rendered":"not about mary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What happens to that space you occupied when you are gone?&nbsp; That space defined by all the things you kept close, by all the people who stayed close to you, what becomes of it?&nbsp; Loved ones may try to fill it, preserve its form and shape the way you left it.&nbsp; They will visit it often&#8211;at first&#8211;to prevent it from appearing unoccupied, vacant.&nbsp; Abandoned.&nbsp; But they all have their own spaces to occupy.&nbsp; When you are gone they will each still have their own assortment of people and things which they hold close&#8211;except for one.&nbsp; And that break in the line of love that contains them will need soon to be closed.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Tell me where you go, so I can stretch these ragged ends of who I was with you, to rejoin you, and become me again, and so we won&#8217;t have this empty space in place of you.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>[<a href=\"http:\/\/www.halfmadspinster.com\/2003_01_12_archive.asp#87560666\">not about mary<\/a>]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What happens to that space you occupied when you are gone?&nbsp; That space defined by all the things you kept close, by all the people who stayed close to you, what becomes of it?&nbsp; Loved ones may try to fill &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/?p=385\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=385"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/burgwinkel.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}